Monday, 10 June 2013

Justice


John Cullen lectures in the School of Business at the National University of Ireland Maynooth.  He researches the relationship between work, spirituality & management learning (particularly their impact on our relationship with the natural world and society).

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Justice
My aunt died this week.   She was the most soulful person you could meet.  Engaging, beautiful, compassionate and funny; the world seems quieter without her.  Her cancer came quickly and robbed everyone who knew her of somebody who made them feel vigorously loved.  That someone so young as her should be taken at such a young age is unjust.  All feelings of injustice derive from a sense of loss – of no longer having someone who reminds us of the importance of connecting to other people.  Someone who tells us that there is always something we can do to help people who have lost something. 

Last Palm Sunday Pope Francis tweeted: ‘We must not believe the Evil One when he tells us that there is nothing we can do in the face of violence, injustice and sin’.  Since then a clearer picture of what he means by ‘injustice’, and who he means as ‘perpetrators’ has emerged.  He has been increasingly outspoken in his comments against the ‘tyranny’ of the world of international finance who would have us believe that we all have to take the poisonous medicine of Austerity that has devastated families, ruined wellbeing and even led to the resurgence of far-right xenophobic groups.  The appeal that this latter group wield is doubtlessly grounded in the way that they appeal to a sense of justice that has been denied to working people by mainstream democratic parties.  We are all in a dangerous place because of a perceived lack of justice. 

In The Denial of Death, Ernest Becker wrote that all human beings sooner or later have to engage with the most difficult fact of their existence: the fact that they will die.  People do this by becoming involved in an ‘immortality project’ which is a way of reminding ourselves that our existence is significant.  The social construction of these projects leads to conflicts between these systems over time.  Herein is the difficulty with harmful social and political movements: the people who run them ultimately believe that they are doing the right thing for themselves, their community, and even the world.  At the core of the injustice that they inflict on other people, they believe that they are being just. 

A Muslim friend of mine speaks of his faith in terms of justice.  He believes in afterlife where everything will be set right; where the people he loves who have suffered will be allowed to live the fullest possible life, and the indignities and illnesses they have endured will be forgotten.

Even the most atheistic amongst us want the same thing.  Marx recognised this desire to be one that religions could accommodate.  Religion is ‘the sigh of the oppressed creature, the heart of a heartless world, and the soul of soulless conditions’.  His language is apt, because he speaks of a world without a heart and soul.  Our desire for justice is based on the need for recognising that people are not consumers, market segments or human capital.  We are not whatever economists imagine us to be; we are contributors to long emergent cultural processes. 

Becker proposed that people became mentally ill and depressed because they are denied access to resources which could enable them to complete their immortality project.  Boring work, poverty, evidence of a lack of compassion make people believe that the concept of a soul – our sense of self which is rooted in the various groups we are members of – has ceased to exist.  Without souls we are only intelligent animals who do not owe each other anything and only have a duty to satisfying our own self-interest.  Like the demon in The Exorcist who tries to convince the priests that humans are animals who are not worthy of God’s love, the concept of behaving justly is integral to the idea of living a life that is soulful.  Whereas markets have a strong utility in helping people develop their skills in a meritocratic way, innovating and satisfying needs, when they become an overall orthodox ideology on whose terms solely is society governed, then we have found a rationale for treat people as if they had no souls - a rationale for treating them unjustly.

The easy thing to do is to find someone to blame for our losses – extremism always fills the gap of hurt easily.  But there is something more productive we can do when we feel like a victim of injustice.  The cultural psychologist Rick Shweder has demonstrated that depressed states are associated with the concept of ‘soul loss’ in many societies.  In Thinking Through Cultures (1991) he writes: ‘To feel depressed one must have had experience with the soul’(p.255).  In short, experiencing intense pain is the first step that we take to find more soulful ways of living.  Facing the pain of injustice and the reality of loss in a mature way leads us to new ways of creating justice for others. 

In Memory of Nuala Joyce.

Tuesday, 4 June 2013

Patience by Gill How


Patience is the state of endurance in difficult situations

By Gill How

“Patience is the state of endurance in difficult situations, persevering in the face of delay or provocation. It is the level of endurance before negativity.”

“Virtue is moral excellence, a positive trait or quality deemed to be morally good.”

Both these descriptions come from Wikipedia.

The topic here is patience as a virtue. I have journeyed with patience over the last few years and felt drawn to write about it here.

My relationship with patience became explicit with feedback from the external assessor at the end of my coaching supervision viva, the final, observed, point of my coaching supervision qualification. She reflected back how patient I had been with my client, and how that patience had showed in the time I gave the client in finding her own thinking. Giving a client this time would feel a respectful thing for me to do anyway, but the language in the feedback was patience. This reminded me of two things – one how I had learnt to be patient with my middle child, who has learning difficulties (Down’s Syndrome), where every stage of his progress has been hard won, recognised and celebrated. It also reminded me of when, as a child myself, I taught another child to dive (we were in the same swimming club). I was able to sit on the side of the pool with him and wait until he decided he could do it.  And now as a grown up, I am often complimented on how much I believe people can do things, and how I give them the time, space and belief to go and do the things they initially believe they cannot. Maybe patience with others is not so much a virtue of mine, but a strength – something I cannot not do. However, there are boundaries – I can only do it for about three hours maximum at a time! And then I need to do something different.

The second area of thought about patience is about patience with oneself, particularly when things do not go at the speed that one would wish. I am, of course, talking about the “slower than we would like” speed. After eighteen years of working for myself I have decided the time has come to join an organisation again. My patience has been remarkably tested, finding my direction and place to fit where all of my experience is valued, appreciated and welcomed, particularly in time of recession. There have been clear moments of despair, amidst all the learning and opportunity to connect in a heartfelt way with others about the dilemmas we face choosing our career at the current time. Not so good on the level of endurance before negativity occurs then, a clear case of good and bad inter-twined! However, in one of my more despairing moments of reflection, I wrote myself a note which began... “I got this job because...” and I was surprised to find myself answering the question in the following way: “I got this job because I was patient. I took the journey as work itself, a learning adventure in its own right, and when the inner work was done and the learning complete, I got the job.” And certainly, as I have become more open to feedback about how I am seen, and where my best contribution would be next, things have flowed more easily.

So where does this lead? What are your thoughts on this quote:

Patience with others is Love,

Patience with self is Hope,

Patience with God is Faith.

Adel Bestravos, 1924 – 2005, who was a Deacon in the Christian Coptic Orthodox Church in Egypt.

 

I found his quote quite inspiring and a different, more positive take on the topic. I can see that my stories about patience with others align well with Love. My stories about patience with myself vary on or with Hope, although do link very strongly with the concept of my own purpose and meaning, and they seem to represent some strange combination of what Adel says about self and God and maybe even Faith for me. I do like his three dimensions, (the number three always is good!) and the linkages he offers, even if it is not entirely consistent with my own thoughts and beliefs, not  at the moment anyway.

What then are the take-aways about my thoughts about patience? The things which stand out for me are:

·         Patience can clearly be an act of love, perhaps this can be seen and felt more easily with others, however perhaps it could be targeted in the same way for self too

·         When patience is required, and I take it as a positive reaction to a situation, it is an opportunity for reflection, inner work and growth as well as feedback and engagement with others

·         At its best patience is therefore an active response, a place where I am present, alive and connected with the needs of the moment, in direct contrast with some of the better known qualities of passivity, denial and avoidance, strategies with which I have been far too familiar in the past.

 What a surprise – I wonder if I have transformed “endurance” to “engagement” ...

Patience is the state of engagement with difficult situations...a positive trait or quality deemed to be (morally) good.

I have enjoyed writing this – it would please me if you would share your own response and thoughts about patience as a virtue here too...

 

Gill is a leadership development consultant and executive coach, particularly interested in helping people in organisations to lead change in an effective, results oriented and meaningful way which exceeds expectations of stakeholders.